sigh no more, ladies.

I remember a time where boys used to intimidate me. Most of us are always so scared of them and what they have to say about us. We perceive ourselves as something we hope that certain guys will like and want to pursue. We’re so sad, and busy over thinking that we don’t even bother thinking about what we can do instead. Why waste so much time on what should have been, when you can be thinking about what you could be doing elsewhere !

I used to cry over boys all the time, literally all the time, and most girls won’t admit it but we’re all crying a little too much for my liking. It’s gotta stop. Let’s get real here, why do we have to cry over guys? Why do we feel like they’re better than us when maybe they are not even good enough. Then I read this great blog post, talking about Snooki. Ya, that Snooki, and everything changed. My friend made the point that when comparing Snooki to the modern day woman they’re completely different.

When modern day women go through a break-up, well we all know what that’s like, but when Snooki goes through a break up she’s got it together! Damn do I look up to her, and then I thought about it, why can’t I do that? Why can’t we all do that? Why I can’t I just brush it off my shoulders and move on to bigger and better things. If he doesn’t text you, tinderella’s get out your phones and get cracking. We’re confined to this idea that we’ve only got a couple shots, and as we get older each prospect seems more promising. With anything that’s promising and happens to fall through can also lead to great disappointment. That look isn’t working for us anymore, time for some change. No. No more. You know how many people there are on this planet?????? and you’re crying about  wait,.. what’s his name?? If this great idea you had doesn’t work out, get on to the next idea, who’s to say the next idea won’t be better than the first?

I’m gonna speak for every girl when I say that once you find someone new it’s easy to laugh at the past and perhaps learn from it. Ya the between is a little bit sticky, but who doesn’t like honey???? Point is, we can’t cry anymore, we can’t complain about him not texting us, because there’s another guy out there just waiting to text you.

Now you guys already know I cry a lot, but I’m making a change in the way I see relationships and the other gender. No more crying. No more complaining because I realized after reading that article that I’m awesome. We’re so focused on who doesn’t want to be with us that we blind ourselves from the ones who do.

With that said, ladies, really? Do I have to tell you to go out there and get yourselves a man or have you already got your shoes on?

Here’s is the link to the post my friend wrote that I throughly enjoyed !

http://www.jacklynsara.com/2010/12/viva-la-snooki.html